Sure, you could always be more organized, more cheerful, more on top of every little detail. But you're not a Mombot, thank goodness, and no one (except, perhaps, you!) expects you to be. Below, we've rounded up 31 things among hundreds that you can give yourself leeway to do - without the burden of even one ounce of stress.

1. Taking a vacation with only your husband.
It's such a tragedy for the kids to spend time with their superindulgent grandparents! Besides, they'll benefit from you two not giving each other the stink eye during dinner.

*** Check : LOVE getting away & don't feel guilty in the slightest....Before the Moore 4 came along there was just Adam & Danielle.....without "us".... there would be no "them".

2. Feeling smug that you're a better parent than those on Supernanny.
No worries. We all feel smug watching Supernanny. Until we don't, at which time we employ her techniques.

*** I really would love Supernanny to drop in sometimes!!!!

3. Not signing up to be class parent.
Think of it this way: Your ability to say no to volunteer tasks you can't handle will leave you better able to concentrate on what only you can do, like getting your kids fed, dressed and onto the bus. Some days, that's huge!

*** I made the decision long ago that I will volunteer in the kids classrooms....but will only be class parent there 5th grade (last year in elementary).

4. Yelling at your son when he actually didn't do anything wrong.
Sure, not a great move, but it's a good opportunity to show him that even you screw up sometimes, and that saying sorry really does help make it better.

**** This actually happens quite a bit...since we have an instegator named Mya Jean(she convinces me it was _________'s fault...until I get the other side ;)

5. Enjoying your work.
You can love your kids and still have that "Thank God It's Monday" feeling, well, every Monday. Especially after a long and dreary winter weekend.

**** Ohhhhhhh how I love Mondays.......most people hate them...I looooovvveeee them!

6. Buying your daughter the generic UGGs.
She'll live without the label, even if she thinks she will not, and her tootsies will be just as toasty.

**** Yep....sorry ladies...Justice "Uggs" will have to do.....Your feet are growing too quickly......

7. Buying yourself the real ones.
You treat your shoes better than your kid does, and you won't outgrow them. Plus, they're really cute. Being the wage earner has its perks.

****Yep.....when that huge Ugg box shows up on the doorstep....unless you're an 8.5....the real deal will be on Mama Moores feet as such a cozy, sweet treat ;)

8. Giving him the answer to the last problem on his math homework.
He'll get more practice with the teacher in school.

**** Let's just gett'er done already.....

9. Dipping into your son's goody bag when he isn't looking.
What's a funsize Snickers between family members?

***Or daughters' goody bag....It's a blessing & a curse to have 4 goody bags hangin' around after a party ;)

10. Not going in the pool with them.
Chlorine does a real number on your hair, and besides, that's what dads are for.

**** That's the exact words that come out of my mouth (most summer days)....and that Andrea (my hair diva) would not be happy ;)